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When is it OK to grope a new girlfriend for the first time?

Is there a certain number of dates you should go on first or something? How can I tell she isn't going to freak out if I suddenly slide a hand under her shirt?

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Edited: 16 Apr '12, 19:48    Asked: 15 Apr '12, 07:11
BenStandin BenStandin
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I'm not sure that it's ever okay to 'grope' a new girlfriend, but you need to learn to read her body language to find out when would be a good time to make your move.

For example, if she touches you this could be a really good sign. (She could also just be being friendly, so stroking your thigh and looking into your eyes is infinitely better news than if she taps your arm to get your attention.)

You can also try touching her and see how she reacts (and no, at this stage I’m not suggesting shoving your hand under her shirt.) Just brush up against her occasionally or use a few intimate gestures and see what happens. She might reciprocate or she might flinch.

As a general rule, girls get closer to guys they like and so if she moves closer to you when you are talking, this could be a good sign (unless you’re in a nightclub and it’s just that she can’t hear a word you’re saying.)

Take things slowly to make sure you haven’t misread the signals. If you reach for her hand and she pushes it away, this will ultimately be a lot less embarrassing than if you make a grab under her shirt and you’ve got it wrong. Hopefully you will have many more opportunities to get to know her intimately, so don’t go and ruin it by rushing things. Act in haste; repent at leisure as the saying goes.

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Answered: 19 Apr '12, 09:44
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