My girlfriend and I are starting to get close to sex, but, she's a virgin. I'm not, but the only women I've slept with have been a one night stand, and then a week later, a friends with benefits thing, where I kinda used a girl for sex (not proud of it). I'm worried that if I tell my girlfriend this, she'll think I'm a dick, and not ant to sleep with me, but on the other hand, I can't keep my sexual past a secret from her. How do you suggest telling her gently, so she doesn't freak out, and think that I'm using her? Also, she will be the first virgin I've slept with...what do I need to do differently?
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Edited: 25 Jul '12, 05:25
Asked: 05 Jul '12, 06:06
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